Befor this summer I've been going to a therapist and learned how to take care of myself in stressful situations, I felt hopeful and looked forward to having my family at home and just enjoy summer break. Although I've practiced relaxing techniques, I've done so when man and child has been at work and in kindergarten, thus I was not ready for what this vacation had to offer.

Hello, long time no see, huh!? Through the past months, I've struggled to see the vision for this website. When I started this in August 2023 I was visioning myself as a plus size mom becoming an influencer. As the months went, I found this really hard to do. Yes, I can come with opinions and perspectives sometimes, but becoming an influencer was and is not something that I want to pursue. So, that's that. I'm not an influencer. Right?

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It's been a while since I last wrote. A lot have happend the last couple of weeks. Sickness. Christmas. Sickness. Work. Sickness again, and yeah, you get the pattern here. During Christmas break and countless hours of sickness in the house, I've managed to reflect upon what I'm actually doing with this blog. On that reflection journey I got to thinking, that I haven't really explained on here what the point of this blog is. What am I actually doing here? Especially after my recent post, I came to think of how I chose to use this platform to actually write about something quit private to me. I wrote my feelings down and I got so many great compliments, not only about the important arguments I made, but also, compliments about my writing. I felt so vulnerable, especcially since I shared the post on my private Facebook account. Before that, this blog was only known for people who don't know me, the people closest to me, and me. The thought of friends, family, and people from work finding out about this blog, got me in a twisted and toxic headspace. At the same time, I chose to share the last post with everyone (almost) that I know, because the urge of including my voice in a debate was more important to me, than listening to my insecurity. But is that what this blog is about?

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Ok, so lets talk about ads in my posts. I want to be real with you. Yes, some posts will include links you can click on to view a product or to buy it. Posts and links marked with "ad" contain product promoting. However, it is important for me that you know it is mainly for plus size fashion inspiration. In order for me to legitally show dresses, photographs, and other products, I need to inform you of where I have found them. Also, if the product is actually something you would want to buy it is helpfull for you that you can click on the link, so you don't have to search the internet. There will also be links that are not ads, these links credit the creator and I have included them because I believe that they share the same values for body positivity and inclusiveness as me. To make it more clear; below you can see how I mark ads.